Expectations

EXPECTATIONS WHEN VISITING AN ESTABLISHMENT                    

If visiting an establishment, these are the common practices.

  this is a madame/receptionist you may see in an establishment - nice and friendly and lovely :)

The door may be opened by an attendant, or if it's one of the larger establishments you may enter into a reception with a desk and a receptionist. You can be expected to be told the rates at this stage, generally for 30, 45 or 60 minutes. The services on offer are usually dependant on the working lady and that is for discussion at a later time. You can ask how many ladies are available, and a description if you like.

You will then be shown to a lounge, or a bedroom in the smaller places, and the ladies will come into the room and introduce themselves one at a time. It is at this stage that you will be told the services they offer, and you can ask if you have a specific request. It is better to ask here rather than when with the lady, since it can be uncomfortable for her if you make a request later that she isn't happy with.

When all the available ladies have been seen the receptionist will come back into the room and ask which one you would like to see, and for how long. At this stage you pay the fee.
If none of the ladies take your fancy, it is not rude to say so and leave, it's your money after all.

The receptionist may then show you to a room or ask you to wait for the lady of your choice to take you to a room.

Once in the room you will be asked to shower and the lady may leave, or may help you shower. When showered, sit or lie on the bed and wait for the lady to come back. She may ask to inspect your genital area. Then the fun begins.

All reputable places will insist on a condom for intercourse, though some vary for oral sex.

When the agreed time is approaching, the lady may be notified by a knock on the door or an intercom.

Once complete, you should shower again and the lady will also shower. Get dressed, and feel free to offer a tip. Be polite, it doesn't cost anything.

What is a reasonable expectation of service when visiting an establishment.

Different establishments will have different expectations on what may and may not be included in a 'service'. This will vary greatly depending on factors such as the price the establishment charges, if it's an Asian establishment, if it's full service or R&T etc. The best way to find out what a reasonable expectation is:

• ask the lady what she will and wont do in the line up.
• ask the lady when you are being introduced to her what her extras are. If she charges for kissing or to touch her breasts, don't expect to be able to touch her boobs or kiss her in your booking. This can be a VERY good way of checking what you can expect in a 'standard service' if you choose not to pay for 'extras'.
• ask the establishment it's standard level of service
• read other punters reviews on forums (reviews are not the best way to gauge level of service as some ladies may only provide some services to regular clients).

       

The minimum service you should expect to receive in a full service establishment is:

• sex (in one position)
• blow job (not bareback)
• lady is lovely to you and will talk to you
• discretion is assured
• You are in the room with the lady for the time you have paid for and not hustled out early. Remember in most establishments the time starts from the time the lady walks into the room after you have showerd and may even include your shower time.

       

The minimum service you should expect to receive in a massage parlour (R&T) establishment

  lady in an establishment - see they look lovely and friendly and waiting for you to arrive :)

• massage (not professional)
• happy ending (ie. handjob)
• body slide in one position - not all ladies provide reverse bodyslides or body slide on front and back and this can often be charged as an extra unless it is the establishments 'minimum level of service policy' to bodyslide in more than one position.
• lady is lovely to you and talks to you
• discretion is assured
• You are in the room with the lady for the time you have paid for and not hustled out early. Remember in most establishments the time starts from the time the lady walks into the room after you have showerd and may even include your shower time.

What you can expect to be charged extra for?

"Extra's" are a sexual service a lady does not include in her standard service, and charges you extra money for. Extras may or may not be condoned in an establishment by management and other ladies. For this reason it is best to discuss this issue in private with the ladies. Extra's will differ depending on if your visiting a full service or massage establishment. Standard extra's may include:

• kissing
• sex in more than one position
• BBBJ (bare back blow job)
• rimming
• dress ups
• fantasy
• role play
• B&D
• massage and bodyslide (if in full service establishment)
• bodyslide in more than one position (massage parlour)
• blowjob (massage)
• touching naughtybits on lady
• anal
• MSOG (mutliple shots on goal is cumming more than once)
• touching any part of the body (massage parlour)
• touching your nipples

Basically ladies may charge you an extra for ANYTHING they wish which is not part of the required standard service, so it's VERY important to be aware of this. If you are unhappy with the extra you have paid for, there is no recourse for you to take. Most establishments wont want to know about it because they aren't getting a cut of the money you paid for it. 

In some establishments you can ask the receptionist if your looking for a specific extra. I would make myself aware of their views on extras before you asked though. If a massage parlour frowns on full service being performed. it wouldn't be advisable to ask a receptionist who does it.

The best way to ensure you get what you paid for is:

• to be lovely to the lady and be squeeky clean
• read reviews. Guys will often discuss extra's they paid for and whether or not they received what they paid for
• be specific with the lady when discussing the issue. If you'd like kissing, ask the lady if she does DFK (Deep French Kissing). If the answer is no she kisses but does not DFK, you can expect to pay $50 for a peck on the lips or cheeck maybe once in the time your with her. In no way does paying for an extra gaurantee you'll receive what you paid for in the way you'd like. THe best way to ensure this is to be VERY specific when negotiating.