On this page we will cover the things you need to know if going on an adventure to someone's hotel room. Escorting to a hotel is one of the most common places to go besides someone's home, but it's quite different to going to someone's home, so best we break it down into the nitty gritty so there's no suprises and so you can plan better.

Escorting to a Hotel

This means meeting a client in his hotel room. Things to remember and think about are....

1. Do not meet him in the bar or restaurant in the hotel, you must meet him in his room. This is so you can

verify he actually exists by talking to him in his hotel room before you leave home. This will mean you need to ask him his full name and hotel room number so you can call him back. If he doesn't want to give you his full name, don't bother turning up because 99% of the time, he wont exist. Every man knows he MUST give you his full name for a room check if he wants an escort to visit.
so he doesn't just have a free perve at you walking thru a restaurant and get his jolly's sitting in the bar giggling at you sitting around waiting for him when he has no intention of approaching you
so you can get paid before you spend an extended period of time with him if he says he wants to go out for dinner first so will meet you in the bar or restaurant. It is also more discreet to be paid in a hotel room rather than passing money or credit card across a table.
so you can have a helloooo kiss and cuddle before you go to dinner which makes things more comfortable
verify with your security that you are ok and the hotel room they can come and save you in if something bad happens. Be appropriate for the venue, so if you're going to a 5 Star Hotel, wear a business suit and jacket, or a cocktail dress with a full length jacket covering your clothes. The idea is to look like one of the hotels booked in guests so they can't tell the fact your a visitor not a hotel guest.

2. What to wear

If you like to arrive in fetish clothing or he has requested something that does not fit the venue, you can either wear a big jacket and put on the inappropriate attire when you get to his floor and duck down a corridor to put it on, or use the hotel toilet when you get there. I do this all the time if I arrive in latex but need to put my thigh high PVC boots on. I put the latex dress on, put a trench coat over the top, take a spare bag with my boots in them and put them on just down the hall from his door.
ALWAYS wear a boring jacket over the top of whatever you wear. If you wear a cocktail dress, you will attract attention from everyone you walk past so hide it. Bad idea to wear cardigans to cover your clothing. Don't wear bright colors or red unless you cover it because it will draw attention. You want to look like a business person staying in the hotel
Make sure you have the right bag/bags when you go. A cheap shit, hookery bag will give you away no matter how you hide your clothing. Business suit, business bag is the way to go. Some ladies if they have to take lots of toys/tools, will pull a carry on luggage wheelie bag behind them.
You can always get changed when you get into the room and explain to your client discretion is really important to you both if he wants something that would be hard to hide walking thru a lobby
Don't dress down to go to a Hotel Booking no matter how paranoid you are of being seen. Some ladies will wear jeans or day wear so no-one will think they are escorting. Guys HATE it if you turn up wearing a pair of jeans and a blouse unless you look like a supermodel and can make jeans look UBER sexy, they wont be impressed. If you are to paranoid to get dressed up as an escort to walk thru a lobby, you probably shouldn't be escorting. Dressing down may draw less attention, but it will draw less admiration from your client.
Try and take a plain set of clothes with you and comfy walking shoes in your bag if you are travelling on a Friday, Saturday night or any night from 2am - 4am when you may find it impossible to get a taxi. You may have to walk home, you may need to move quickly if someone looks like mugging you for the money you have just made while you're standing on the street waiting for a taxi. It's best to be prepared if the shittiest luck with travel plans happens and that means plain clothes.

3. How to walk into a Hotels Lobby

All hotels will have different lobby's and some will be very annoying, some very unfriendly, some very indiscreet. Here's what to look out for and be aware of...

have a good look for the lifts so you know exactly where you're going. This avoids anoying staff coming to ask you annoying questions. You can do this by having a good look around thru the windows before you go in, check online at the photo's of the hotel before you go on their website, or ask another escort.
stick your nose in the air and look like you belong there and are gracing them with your presence. Hotel staff have an annoying habit of looking at you like your garbage. Just remember you're about to make in 2 hours what they make in a week - it can make you feel better
try not to get eye contact with hotel staff and if you do smile sweetly. Depending on the Hotel, the staff will know who you are and what you are straight away and may treat you like garbage, so try and look confident and be discreet and give them no excuses to approach you
avoid the concierge and front desk. The Westin in Sydney's CBD is the worst for this - they have 4 seperate desks you have to walk past on the way to the lifts
find out where the hotels bar is. One of business mens favorite ways to pass the time is to watch escorts walking thru the lobby. This can be annoying and off putting so know where it is to try and avoid it if it makes you anxious

4. What to say if hotel staff approach you

The main message here is don't take shit from hotel staff. Park Hyatt and Mantra Hotels are notorious for harassing escorts. Legally you are allowed to be in a hotel and working (as long as the room doesn't have a mini-bar in it), so don't let them intimidate or harass you. If they try and stop you from going up or insist on escorting you to the gents door, ask them if they make it a habit to piss their guests off because they wont appreciate it if you arrive at their door with a hotel staff member in tow. Try and be sweet and polite, but they have no right to be nasty to you or make you feel bad in any way.

5. Ask client if the lift has a security access key

Security access keys are those little floppy keys you may need to stick in the lift to get up to his floor. If there is, some guys will want to leave a key for you at the front desk which is bad. If you pick up a key to his room/floor, it will mean you have to talk to hotel staff (which we try and avoid) and you have to show ID to pick the key up, which means you have to give your client your real name (which is bad).

To get around this issue, let the gent know you will call him when you are 5 minutes away so he knows to get dressed and put shoes on, tell him you will call him when you're standing in the lift area (call him when you arrive out the front of the hotel so he will be catching a lift when you get there), ask him what he is wearing so you can recognise him, tell him what you're wearing so he can recognise you, tell him to stay in the lift and you will jump in when you see him so there is no need for him to get out of the lift. This is the most discreet way to go about getting your client to pick you up in a lift.

6. What ID to take

Take NO ID at all. You don't want anyone going thru your bag and finding it. Just like if you working from home, you hide ALL identifying information and put it in a place no-one will ever find it. There will be no reason to carry ID.

7. Where to get dropped off and picked up

Concierges and lobby staff can be REALLY annoying if they have to open taxi doors for you. It draws attention to yourself and takes away focus from what you have to do. Try and get them to drop you off just before the hotel if it's a safe area, so you can avoid the hotel staff. Walking up to the hotel also gives you the opportunity to have a look around for the lifts as you approach the doors.

Getting them to call a taxi for you after a job can be an issue (especially at the Intercontinental), so if they refuse to help you, just walk out onto the street if it's safe and flag one down yourself. If it's not a safe place, make one of the hotel staff go with you and wait with you. Remember you'll be carrying some cash, so be careful.

If you're driving yourself in, ask him if you can charge the cost of the parking to his room. Be sure to ask him first though.

Never ever charge a limo to his room. He will pay it nearly every time because the Concierge will call his room for permission first and usually they wont say no to keep it discreet. If you do it, you WILL get a bad review and he wont book you again... believe it or not, it does happen.

8. What to do if he refuses to give you extension money or steals it from you in a booking

Every escort I have ever spoken to has had this issue. Guys may say things like "oh I have forgotten the pin number to my safe", "oh I have run out of money, I need to go downstairs to the safe or ATM to get it", "I already paid you, empty your bag I want to search it" (followed by them ripping your hairbrush apart because they are sure there is a secret compartment in it designed to steal money). 99% of the time, they will say they need to leave the room to get money and you need to go with them. NEVER EVER leave the room. Once you leave the room, he wil deny ever knowing you and get security to remove you from the hotel. If you're in the room, he is powerless to make you disappear without causing a HUGE drama. DO NOT leave the room, pick up your phone and call your security to let them know your client is trying to rip you off and they should come and help you with the situation immediately.... he'll pay at this stage. If he still refuses, call Hotel management and let them know you have been raped (because you just have)... he'll DefINATELY pay at this stage. DO NOT leave the room until you have ALL of your money.

9. What to take on a basic 1 - 2 hour escort booking in a hotel room

As a mimum escorts generally take...

condoms
lube
dental dams
vibrator
make up
tooth brush
keys to get into apartment
work phone - put it on silent so it doesn't ring, but have an emergency contact number programmed in and ready to go in case the pooh hits the fan and you need to call for help

What I take on top of the above...

2 x changes of lingerie - one to wear home and one to change into when I get there and if he's really lucky, I'll let him cum on one set (boys love doing that)
latex dress x 2
change of dress - boys love fashion shows
set of fish net stockings
spare sheer stockings in case the ones I'm wearing get a ladder or I need something extra to tie him down with or gag him with (I'm a tad more devious than the average bear but)
red jelly beans
massage gloves
electricity box (if requested)
latex tape
scissors
latex gloves
water based / water soluable massage oil
bullet vibrator (I don't take a large 'normal' vibrator because I think they are useless and serve no purpose)
STI handbook
corset
lighter
4 x leather restraints
4 x silk ropes

10. What if he asks you to book the room (important for Melbourne ladies who can only escort)

I get alot of emails from ladies asking me what to say if a client asks them to book the hotel room. Personally I would NEVER book a room for a client and the ladies who send me an email about it, only ask because they are not comfortable doing it. All I can say is, if it's something that gives you a gut reaction, if you stop and think for a milli second about doing it, then don't do it.

Personally I don't see it as my job to organise a man's sex life. When someone asks me to do it because they can't have credit card charges appear on their credit card, I always suggest the following:

go to work half an hour early, stop by a hotel and book a room and pay for it with cash
take an hour for lunch, go to a hotel and book a room and pay for it with cash
go to a hotel after work, book the room and then book me to arrive an hour or 2 later
get a seperate credit card and get the bill sent to your work address or PO Box
get a debit card

Risks involved with booking the room yourself if you're an escort:

he may no show and you're out hundreds of dollars that you spent on the hotel (still a risk even if it's a regular you trust)
you become known to hotel staff and they have your real name on record (I've been banned from every Mantra Hotel in the World and trust me it's not an experience you want to have)
the client can talk his way into getting a key and your real name
security is a risk
it is not normal protocol
means extra time in preparing for a booking
make you feel uncomfortable / edgie in a booking

11. In the room don't forget..

never answer the phone - there's nothing worse than having to say hello to someone's wife!
never answer the door - only thing worse than answering the phone to someone's wife, is answering the door to someone's wife!
never have sex on the sheet he will sleep on - always pull up the top sheet so it's completely covering the bed. If you do this he wont have to sleep on dirty sheets with lube puddles on it and you wont be bonking on something he has put his naked uncovered penis on (minimise STI transmission risk)
never help yourself to the mini bar, always ask first
always put your clothes and belongings in one pile/section of the room in case you need to pick them up and run quickly and don't have time to hunt around the room looking for them
don't smoke in the room unless it is a smoking room or he'll get fined $200+ for room cleaning (Glen 20 is expensive these days) and you'll never hear the end of it
don't forget to pinch the toothbrush the hotel supplies in the bathroom - they are superb for cleaning your fish tank at home :)
NEVER EVER sit on the doona cover, chairs, or any other fabric coated surface. Guys sit on them and bonk on them and jerk off on them naked and anything that can't be washed in a washing machine after each guest stays, will still be living on it when the next guest and you arrive
make use of the mirrors for hanky panky play
order room service and make use of food for hanky panky
don't light candles or he'll have to pay $200+ for room cleaning to get rid of the smoke
if you're in a suite, never go into a room where his belongings are without asking first. I run around hotel rooms like a maniac and if the guy hasn't put away his laptop, locked his safe, not put away his Rolex etc, he will jump thru the roof and rip your head off because he thinks you're going into the room where his stuff is to steal it.
never be afraid to tell hotel staff they are arseholes because they generally are - don't take their bollocks
always unwrap a fresh soap or use the shampoo etc to have a shower with afterwards. Don't use a cake of soap he may already have put on his naughty bits
never leave a mess in the hotel room - it's terribly indiscreet to leave condoms wrappers lieing around, towels all over the floor in the bathroom etc. He will REALLY appreciate it if you clean up before you leave
try not to leave make up on the sheets. There is nothing sadder for the escort that arrives after you to see your make up all over the sheets and pillow cases and know she is slops
keep your eye on the time at around 2am'ish because the taxi's wont be around to drive you home from 2.30'ish - 3.30'ish because it's change over time and they will refuse to take you anywhere even if they happen to be around.
if you can, take some plain clothes/comfy shoes with you in case you need to walk home
don't take ID with you
always use your own clock to keep time not the hotel room clock - guys change the time on these all the time depending on if they like to set the clock early to get up for work, if they are from the other side of the world and on a different body clock etc
DO NOT leave the room if you have not checked your money is still where you put it and is exactly the right amount
don't be scared to make noise in a hotel room - moaning and groaning is encouraged and permitted with 99% of men.
if you have to sign for room service - sign it with his last name not your own or made up one. Either that or scribble all over it in ineligbile writing.

12. How a phone conversation will sound when final verification comes in..

This is REALLY important because there is nothing worse than turning up to a hotel and potentially outing yourself to hotel staff. Unfortunately these days there are many men making fake bookings and it's easy to get done because men are now using Skype to give you a fake phone number. Basically men can now make a ponecall using something like Skype and can send the Hilton's phone number as the number they are calling from. Screening men carefuly is now more important that ever. These are the steps you can take and how a conversation will go...

i. if it is an extended booking, when he makes the booking get his real name. Remember if you are going to his hotel room, you will need his real name to call him in his room for final confirmation anyway so he may as well give it to you sooner rather than later. If you get the bad gut feeling, you can call the hotel a few hours before your booking to see if he has checked in yet. If he tells you he has already booked into the hotel and you call him to verify and he isn't there, then you can begin making contingency bookings because he has lied to you. If he has lied about that, he could be lieing about the entire booking.

ii. when he calls you and says he'd like to book, ask him for:

real name - first name and last so you can be put thru to his room. Hotel staff will not put you thru to anyone's room unless you give them the mans last name
room number - this is so you can be put thru to his room and verify with the hotel the room number actually exists
hotels phone number - tell him to look on the hotel stationary for it if he doesn't have it. Listen carefuly because if you can't hear him moving things around, or can only hear him tapping away on a laptop, chances are he could be looking it up on his laptop which may mean he is not there.

At this point, let him know you're hanging up but you'll call him back straight away because you need to talk to him in is room on the landline for final confirmation. If he asks why, just explain it's part of your security check and just makes you feel more comfortable because some people make fake bookings. If he gets pissed off, wont give you his name and is not sweet, hang up and miss the booking. 100% of men who want to see escorts will not have a problem with you doing this - good clients, men you want to see, will never have a problem doing what needs to be done to satisfy your security and sense of well being. Clever, genuine men will want to keep their escort happy at all times.

When you call back, ask the reception staff if "John Smith" (insert his name) has checked in yet. When they say yes ask them to verify the room number and then ask them to put you thru to his room. Don't just ask to be put thru to him, you need to verify he is in the room number he said he is in verbaly.

When you get thru to him...

ask him if the lifts have swipe access - if it does make plans on how you're going to get upstairs with him. Leaving a key at the front desk wont work because he will need your full name and you will need to show ID to pick it up. Meet him at the lifts and ask him what he will be wearing so you can spot him
verify what time he wants you there
let him know you will call him when you get there on the phone in his hotel room. Do not call him on his mobile because you need to verify once your there that he is still in his room and not sitting in the lobby having a laugh while he watches you calling his mobile phone telling you he will meet you at the lift.

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