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written by Sydney Escort Lucy Blake; site design and maintenance by Lucy Blake; Copyright Lucy Blake  www.lucy-blake.com 2009                                                                           

What's an Ugly Mug?  
An Ugly Mug is a client who may have raped you, push you to do things even though you say no, someone who has stalked you, or serial time wasters. They may be sexually, physically or verbally abusive. They may threaten you, refuse to pay, drug you, basically anyone you walk away from knowing you have been done over and feel awful about.

It is important to remember bad guys don't come in one package - they come in all shapes, sizes and from different backgrounds. Just because someone rapes you and then smiles sweetly afterwards acting normally like nothing happened, does not mean he didn't rape you.

Don't let someone's looks fool you or behaviour after the fact. If it felt wrong, it WAS wrong!

             

What can you do about an Ugly Mug?

REPORT HIM! Yes these men need to be reported. Some place you can report him to are:

  • Online forums   
  • Police   
  • Hospital   
  • SWOP (Sex Workers Outreach Project)   
  • Your counselor   
  • Other workers who may be at risk of seeing him (if you’re a street based worker, let the other girls on the street know)   
  • Safe House Management or Manager in brothel/escort agency, driver, minder

        

Contact details of people who you can report it too:

  • SWOP - 02 9319 4866  (NSW Sex Worker Organisation - but be sure to report it to the State it occurred in Sex Worker Organisation) 
  • Di Harmer Sex Worker Liaison Officer NSW Police Kings Cross Police Station -   02 8356 0099
  • RPA Hospital (Camperdown)  -  02 9515 6111
  • Your friends and other sex workers - send them all an email or text message

       

Why we get you to tell us what you did when making a report
When making a report to other workers, it helps them to know how you handled the situation. It means maybe if they are in the same or a similar situation they can learn from your experience and know how to handle it

          

BE WELL, BE SAFE AND LOOK AFTER EACH OTHER LADIES :)

Example of what and how to report   

Type

Female Private Worker

         

Date/Time

15th August 2007   8.30pm

         

Location

Workers apartment

         

Goes by the name

Larry

         

Contact Details

0430 000 333

         

Appearance

English; Enlgish accent; slight tan; 5 foot 9 in height; blue eyes, glasses, thinning brown hair, chubby, wearing a suit with cufflinks, high polished shoes

        

What he did

Paid at beginning of session, kept on calling me a cunt during booking and told me I was a lazy whore. Asked him not to but he kept calling me a cunt and began throwing me around and pulling my hair. At the end of the booking he said I was a lazy whore and demanded his money back, threatening to tell my neighbours what I do and threatening to bash the shit out of me. When I said I wouldn’t give him his money back he raped me anyway. Thought about reporting it to the Police but didn’t feel like I wanted to be called a whore again that night. Called a friend who is a sex worker and had a chat to her about it just to get it out of my system.  

        

What you did

Asked him once again not to call me a lazy whore or a cunt which just made him angry. Decided he was escalating so decided not to ask him not to call me a whore again. Thought about agreeing to give him half of his money back then thought that would feel like I was raped. When I said I wouldn’t give him his money back he raped me anyway. Thought about reporting it to the Police but didn’t feel like I wanted to be called a whore again that night. Called a friend who is a sex worker and had a chat to her about it just to get it out of my system.


 written by Lucy Blake for Sensualdownunder Educational Wiki. Copyright www.sensualdownunder.com 2008
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